Sorry you've had such a bad day PC I hope you manage to get it all sorted out and get your holiday

Gutted for you both,I hope you can resolve the hotel situation soon .Is there no way you could just say you are a friend visiting and stay at the house .I know it's not ideal but that way you can be together.

Aww P/C that's rotten luck, so much disappointment all at once.

I hope it all works out ok, I'll keep everything crossed for you.

Have a hug....

OMG! What a nightmare. Could this be telling you something though ..............maybe this might be the time to come clean - or at least ..............come some way to broaching the subject. Maybe his parents might suspect that he's gay? my son was 18 when he came out amidst a lot of tears ...................I actually think I knew before he did .............I don't think parents are a dense as you think. Do you not think that maybe they know?

I may be well off the mark here - maybe they wouldn't understand but ................if you're relationship is long term - shouldn't you try and broach it? Maybe he could start by introducing you as a 'friend'who has come out to Japan for a holiday.

Erinp, I would go with ur suggestion... get bf to tell mum and dad... his mate is over for a visit.. and could he stay there... 

That's a bit of bugger, sorry Mr Cat

But I am slightly confused...

You say your BF Parent's don't know he's gay and don't even know about you, but you're staying at their house?  Do you hide when they come home? Or do they know that you're staying at their house, but don't know who you are?

Sorry if i'm confused for nothing, I accidentally swallowed some mouthwash earlier and I think its made me a bit tipsy

Sorry to hear this news Peter, you must be gutted. I know how much you were looking forward to this and hope that you can find a solution. Take care out there if you go coz i have read some alarming news about the Govt not stating the real truth about the amount of radioactive fallout that they initially said.

I hope everything works out PeterCat  

AWWWW - what a dilemma - lots of and hope it works out for you

Blimey PC

No useful advice I'm sorry but a big big hug for you and the bf who must be worried about his Dad admidst all the other stressful stuff

aww PeterCat, that's lousy .. hope you get something sorted out 

read the thread and you being a 'friend' seems a very good option, saves you money, hassle, travel and you can be together hope it works out xx

still can't help feeling for your boyfriend's father first. hope he has a swift recovery and you get your holiday.

Unfortunately, the "friend" option wouldn't work anyway - his parents don't even have relatives to stay, never mind friends. (They're a VERY odd family) And I told my boyfriend a long time ago that it's up to him when and if he comes out to his parents, and that I'd support him whatever he did. It really is a more complicated situation than I'm at liberty to explain.

Thanks for your sympathy and good wishes, folks. I'm a little bit nearer a solution since a friend of mine thought of a way I could pay using the cards, but I'm still to find a hotel. Fingers crossed that tomorrow is better.

I should have explained better, Rawky. Every summer they go to Italy on holiday and ask him to go over and look after the house. He doesn't want to be alone, so he sneaks me in after they've gone to Italy.

As I said, they're a strange family.

Hope your bf's dad is ok and its not a critical surgery he need....I'd go with the friend needs a bed option....

Funnily enough he's not bothered about the op - he's more worried about the operas he'll be missing in Italy!

Scratch the friend option just read back....

ha ha, that's old folks for you 

Hope it all works out for you Peter  

If he's in the hospital just stay and don't say ....... if pos

Not poss, unfortunately - the mother will still be in the house, and he'll be coming home to recuperate for a few days before they fly off.

However, things are looking a bit more hopeful. We're working on a two-hotel option at the moment, which though fiddly looks a bit more do-able.

So glad for you both that something is looking up xx

good news part 2 

Just waiting to hear the latest from his dad before we go ahead and book. I'm bliddy knackered!

Hope you get it all sorted out, Peter - and that your BF's dad's op goes well.

Fingers crossed that someday soon your BF will be able to be open with his parents about your relationship.

It`s looking a bit more promising Peter. I hope it works out for you both and that your boyfriend`s Dad recovers well.

Good luck to you all.    

Oh thank goodness! After only having an hour's sleep, I've just managed to book the hotel. I'll be staying in one hotel but had to do it in 2 bookings because you can't split the payment over 2 cards.

*faints*

 Pleased you're sorted .... have a nice cup of tea to recover and start planning for a lovely holiday

That's good news! Not exactly the holiday that you'd planned but I hope you still have a good time. 

Happy to hear you`ve got it sorted Peter.   

Have a lovely holiday.  

Excellent PC. Have a great time and come back refreshed raring to go with your new business

Great news PC,hope you have a lovely holiday x

 Great news!

And, now you can complain about yourself and how you left the room.

Unless you have to change rooms. If not, demand a new room. 

ooooooh for once I read a thread and go from awww oh noes to yay! sorted   by the end 

Glad you managed to sort something PC 

Glad you got something sorted PC.  Happy holidays.

Glad you got it sorted, Peter.

It was quite an intense 24 hours, Olly!