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If you notice, she always always accuses people of doing and saying things THAT SHE IS GUILTY OF HERSELF - its a big transference thing.

And she doesn`t let up and will not see reason because all she wants is for some form of punishment to be meted out.

I`ve noticed that even when people apologise to her, thats not good enough - she will still brood on it because she always wants the other person to be hurt.

Freddie was hurt - she got satisfaction there.

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Freddie was hurt - she got satisfaction there.

I missed all of that ... been away for last 2 weeks

How the hell did she get to be so calculated and nasty ?

What makes people be this way ? ...... And I really liked her at the begining.

Do you think she is meaningfully nasty ? ..... Or does she truly believe she is doing the right thing Confused

Any thoughts anyone ?
Angel
Freddie said exactly the same thing. That she was projecting all her faults on to him.

And yeah, I said something along the same lines in my "what did Rodders do?" thread. It's all calculated with her and she is just trying to do what she can to hurt/upset/annoy'/riducule as many of them as she can, all the while trying to make them look bad and make herself out to be the martyr.

Pathetic behaviour from a truly bad egg.
langster
OP Nod
Every time she has a difference of opinion with someone, it isn't enough to thrash it out with them and then forget it. She has to go running off to Lisa afterwards, saying: "Guess what so-and-so just said.." and putting her own spin on it.

When she's cornered and can't get out of it (like when Marcus called her on slagging Freddie off behind his back and thinking it was OK to nick his stuff), she turns the waterworks on and threatens to tell BB she's being bullied.
Demantoid
I`m no psychologist but it seems to me that really horrid people desperately want to be STOPPED - tho` they probably don`t realise it consciously.

You often get it with spoilt brats - they`ve had no discipline/boundaries and are actually crying out for them.

I think that punishing temperament of Bea`s is something to do with her feeling BAD about something to do with herself.

Not excusing it tho` - she`s vile.
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
Anyone who crosses her ,even slightly is in for her wrath , she wore Freddie down , now she is doing it to Rodrigo. She tried it with Siavash but all she got was "its all good" She seems a very spiteful person who does not have any sense of humour, and if she doesnt have something she is hell bent on making sure nobody else gets it either
FM
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Originally posted by Poker Face:
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Freddie was hurt - she got satisfaction there.

I missed all of that ... been away for last 2 weeks

How the hell did she get to be so calculated and nasty ?

What makes people be this way ? ...... And I really liked her at the begining.

Do you think she is meaningfully nasty ? ..... Or does she truly believe she is doing the right thing Confused

Any thoughts anyone ?


I think subconsciously she knows she`s nasty but not consciously - thats why she does the transference. She is still feeling the punishment for being nasty but via another.

I`m not a psychologist - just stuff I`ve noticed in life.
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
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Originally posted by Skylark24:
Anyone who crosses her ,even slightly is in for her wrath , she wore Freddie down , now she is doing it to Rodrigo. She tried it with Siavash but all she got was "its all good" She seems a very spiteful person who does not have any sense of humour, and if she doesnt have something she is hell bent on making sure nobody else gets it either

I've noticed that too. For someone who believes herself to be intelligent, she's the most literal-minded in there.
Joke? Blank stare. Joke? Temper tantrum. Joke? Run crying to Lisa/BB.
Demantoid
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Originally posted by Garage Joe:
Nod Did you notice how she made that Charlie scratter spit water over her? She is evil.

Charlie's a living turd, but by god she made a big deal out of it. It was one gobful of water, but according to her, her face, hair, pillow and duvet were "soaked".
I know the bloke's got a big mouth, but even so.. Big Grin
Demantoid
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Originally posted by darloboy07:
Bea is so insecure so to make herself feel better she projects her negative thoughts of herself on to other people, then twists it around and goes all out for sympathy she is totally deluded and can't see any wrong with what she is doing but the GBP voting her out will be her wake up call and the boos to follow on Friday Wink.
well said darlo Clapping
FM
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Originally posted by Poker Face:
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Charlie's a living turd, but by god she made a big deal out of it

Didn't she just Nod ..... she completely overplayed the whole thing Roll Eyes

You could almost hear Charlie cringing with embarrassment under his duvet Blush Laugh


and the lil snake got quieter an quieter it was like he had upset the queen of hearts and was gonna get his head chopped off
jamieboy
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Originally posted by darloboy07:
Bea is so insecure so to make herself feel better she projects her negative thoughts of herself on to other people, then twists it around and goes all out for sympathy she is totally deluded and can't see any wrong with what she is doing but the GBP voting her out will be her wake up call and the boos to follow on Friday Wink.


Thumbs Up Lets hope so - particularly about the wake up call.
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
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Originally posted by Jeggo:
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Originally posted by darloboy07:
Bea is so insecure so to make herself feel better she projects her negative thoughts of herself on to other people, then twists it around and goes all out for sympathy she is totally deluded and can't see any wrong with what she is doing but the GBP voting her out will be her wake up call and the boos to follow on Friday Wink.


Thumbs Up Lets hope so - particularly about the wake up call.

Although she's already told Marcus that even if "4 million viewers" disagree with her, doesn't mean she's wrong Roll Eyes
Demantoid
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Originally posted by Demantoid:
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Originally posted by Jeggo:
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Originally posted by darloboy07:
Bea is so insecure so to make herself feel better she projects her negative thoughts of herself on to other people, then twists it around and goes all out for sympathy she is totally deluded and can't see any wrong with what she is doing but the GBP voting her out will be her wake up call and the boos to follow on Friday Wink.


Thumbs Up Lets hope so - particularly about the wake up call.

Although she's already told Marcus that even if "4 million viewers" disagree with her, doesn't mean she's wrong Roll Eyes


Oh well - denial totally imbedded in concrete by the sound of it.
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
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Originally posted by Demantoid:
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Originally posted by Garage Joe:
Nod Did you notice how she made that Charlie scratter spit water over her? She is evil.

Charlie's a living turd, but by god she made a big deal out of it. It was one gobful of water, but according to her, her face, hair, pillow and duvet were "soaked".
I know the bloke's got a big mouth, but even so.. Big Grin


Quite! Laugh Big Grin Laugh
squiggle
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Originally posted by Skylark24:
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Originally posted by Poker Face:
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She tried it with Siavash but all she got was "its all good"

He obviously knew what she was all about & didn't play into her hands .... didn't give her the benefit .... Good for him.
yes and he won the word game which put her into a flying rage


If Siavash got anymore laid back he would be dead. He is so much more of a hippy than she is. I found it HILARIOUS when she Pwned herself in the DR after the word task. Harping on about the dictionary and certain letters having more words etc. Very true love, did you work that all out by yourself? But that's the luck of the draw, and in truth you have a limited and shite vocabulary and are not as intelligent as you think or want others to believe. Muppet!

I was laughing my arse off when she said all that. Roll Eyes
langster
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Originally posted by Jeggo:
she always always accuses people of doing and saying things THAT SHE IS GUILTY OF HERSELF -

its a big transference thing.

she will still brood on it because she always wants the other person to be hurt.



WOW wee WOW WOW.
that is some profound insight. I never noticed it so much until you pointed it out. I tend to wander out of the room when she or Rod is on the TV. they grate on me.

you should be a BB Big Brain guest.
AB
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Originally posted by Anita Biernow:
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Originally posted by Jeggo:
she always always accuses people of doing and saying things THAT SHE IS GUILTY OF HERSELF -

its a big transference thing.

she will still brood on it because she always wants the other person to be hurt.



WOW wee WOW WOW.
that is some profound insight. I never noticed it so much until you pointed it out. I tend to wander out of the room when she or Rod is on the TV. they grate on me.

you should be a BB Big Brain guest.


Whenever she`s spouting off I`m saying to myself
"Your talking about yourself again" !
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
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Originally posted by Anita Biernow:
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Whenever she`s spouting off I`m saying to myself
"Your talking about yourself again" !


yes. I wonder if she's an only child. She sure acts like a girl used to getting ALL the attention ALL the time. And she's used to having whatever she wants whenever.

did she really get a psych degree from uni?


Dunno about the degree.
Jeggo (Ben`s Buddy/Member of JJ`s LS]
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Originally posted by Jeggo:
If you notice, she always always accuses people of doing and saying things THAT SHE IS GUILTY OF HERSELF - its a big transference thing.

And she doesn`t let up and will not see reason because all she wants is for some form of punishment to be meted out.

I`ve noticed that even when people apologise to her, thats not good enough - she will still brood on it because she always wants the other person to be hurt.

Freddie was hurt - she got satisfaction there.


Not always, I don't think she's spat in someone's face.
Free Thinking
My feeling is that Bea and her mother probably do not see eye to eye in real life. Her reaction to not receiving a letter from her mother was telling. If I was her mother I wouldn't want to show my face on tv either, I would want to hide away. Bea's constant insubordinate behaviour has got her into trouble in the past - at school, at work - and her mother is probably pig sick of it. I would say that most of Bea's personality defects emanates from a bad relationship with her mother. I would be ashamed if Bea was my daughter tbh.
Twee Surgeon
someone claimed that Bea earned a psych degree.
perhaps that's rumour.

but after watching her manipulate the possible winners into looking very guilty (over nothing) it's fascinating.
no way does she have a chance at winning.
I think she'll walk. She now knows that the public are onto her antics. i think she's ashamed, but won't ever admit it.
AB
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Originally posted by Twee Surgeon:
My feeling is that Bea and her mother probably do not see eye to eye in real life. Her reaction to not receiving a letter from her mother was telling. If I was her mother I wouldn't want to show my face on tv either, I would want to hide away. Bea's constant insubordinate behaviour has got her into trouble in the past - at school, at work - and her mother is probably pig sick of it. I would say that most of Bea's personality defects emanates from a bad relationship with her mother. I would be ashamed if Bea was my daughter tbh.


I don't like people speculating about the real life of people outside the house. Big Brother is a gameshow in a pressurised situation. She latched onto Freddie, David latched onto Lisa...they were obvious tactics for a new HM to do to survive. They succeeded. She got annoyed by Freddie as have alot of the HMs, so she distanced herself from him. As is the case for most new HMs she ends up being relatively isolated in the house.

It's a game and I wouldn't presume to know exactly how she acts on the outside.
Free Thinking
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Originally posted by Free Thinking:
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Originally posted by Twee Surgeon:
My feeling is that Bea and her mother probably do not see eye to eye in real life. Her reaction to not receiving a letter from her mother was telling. If I was her mother I wouldn't want to show my face on tv either, I would want to hide away. Bea's constant insubordinate behaviour has got her into trouble in the past - at school, at work - and her mother is probably pig sick of it. I would say that most of Bea's personality defects emanates from a bad relationship with her mother. I would be ashamed if Bea was my daughter tbh.


I don't like people speculating about the real life of people outside the house. Big Brother is a gameshow in a pressurised situation. She latched onto Freddie, David latched onto Lisa...they were obvious tactics for a new HM to do to survive. They succeeded. She got annoyed by Freddie as have alot of the HMs, so she distanced herself from him. As is the case for most new HMs she ends up being relatively isolated in the house.

It's a game and I wouldn't presume to know exactly how she acts on the outside.


hi FT. I have expressed my opinion as to why I think Bea acts the way she does. It is only my opinion and I always risk the chance that I may be wrong. It is a gameshow watched by millions of people, and these people put themselves forward into the spotlight for us to speculate upon. Some of Bea's behaviour in the house and her admitted behaviour outside the house can be linked, without the benefit of a degree in Psychology. The absence of a letter from her mother, and Bea's reaction to that absence is very telling imo. I reiterate, this is only my opinion.
Twee Surgeon

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