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well..... depends how old she is ...and why she wants to move back ....they have to compromise and you cant give in to either of them Hug
its a bugger of a situation but i understand how hard it is ..... what i finally realised was that both mine were actually manipulating me and what i really wanted , which was a peaceful life , and my ultimatum was 'play nicely or you can both bugger off' Nod
lorraineshere
Hug

Hope you can sort it out. I have no kids so I really don't know how you feel, has he got a point, does she have bad strops? If its his house too perhaps you could find a way to talk to him about it when things are calmer.

My step Dad moved into our house but he has lived there that long that it is his house too now, I would respect that if I wanted to move home.
L
She hasn't been able to make a go of it on her own, so the ground rules change, if and when she moves back in, and you let her know that you and her Dad will support her but.......he does deserve a say in things! Who's to say she won't move out again within a week and leave you two at loggerheads. This needs a family pow -wow!
FM
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Originally posted by Tiddly~Wink:
She hasn't been able to make a go of it on her own, so the ground rules change, if and when she moves back in, and you let her know that you and her Dad will support her but.......he does deserve a say in things! Who's to say she won't move out again within a week and leave you two at loggerheads. This needs a family pow -wow!

This is the only post i agree with on this thread,her dad must have a say in this too
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Valentine
Not a nice place to be hun..
I would say children first,but then I hate my OH so tis easy for me to say. Big Grin
It has to be what's best for all concerned, how would the other children feel with the atmosphere or if their Daddy moves out..As someone has already posted..a family chat and ground rules need to be decided beforehand.
Perhaps give a deadline for a trial run and then assess the situation again.
Good luck hun... Valentine
slimfern
She needs you, and your input, or she wouldn't have asked.

Twenty is still young , and selfish to anyone elses thoughts or feelings.

She's not considering how this might affect you and your husband. Frowner

All she can see at her age ...is her.

That's not intended as a slight , but just the way of the world.

You have a long time left to be be with your husband...She will make her own way in the world.

If you value your relationship give it a lot of thought.

Acouple of months of turbulence is a lifetime to a young person, but a life on your own for the sake of what might be a bit of teenage angst....... Shake Head

I wish you good luck Hug
stoory
You and your husband brought your daughter into this world. Maybe remind your husband of this. Your daughter is 20, her strops should be calming down somewhat now (unless they are menstral). We have a girl that lives with us, she is 22 now, we took her in when she was 17. She moved out 2 years ago and came back after 5 months, she couldn't afford to live by herself. There was no qualms about her moving back in. She didn't strop half as much after she moved back in. She was much more appreciative after experiences the cost of living. Good luck, hope everything works itself out, it normally does. Hug
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Originally posted by shar69:
You and your husband brought your daughter into this world. Maybe remind your husband of this. Your daughter is 20, her strops should be calming down somewhat now (unless they are menstral). We have a girl that lives with us, she is 22 now, we took her in when she was 17. She moved out 2 years ago and came back after 5 months, she couldn't afford to live by herself. There was no qualms about her moving back in. She didn't strop half as much after she moved back in. She was much more appreciative after experiences the cost of living. Good luck, hope everything works itself out, it normally does. Hug
T
always can count on you Valentine
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thaks moonie Hug Valentine
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I'm not gonna offer advice cause I int got no kids but I wish you the best of luck Fi Valentine
Always around if you wanna chat. I hope things work out for you and the family Hug


You're more than welcome Valentine
T

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