weesmurf posted:

she's 19 going on 5

remembering back all those years ago, teenage years are tough, but you are right, she is at that age now where she needs to realise the world doesn't owe her a living and she needs to go out and make it happen for herself

i bet you are accused of  "nagging" her, well i am sure you have explained it is not for your benefit, it is because you want her to make something of herself, your frustration must come from worry that she won't achieve what you know she is capable of, hopefully she will realise that for herself sooner rather than later

if she does move out she will realise she had it easy at home

aww i hope you all sort it out

weesmurf posted:

himself and wee one wrestle, she hangs off his neck, sits on him and farts, he takes her to training etc and she sometimes accidentally calls him dad so i guess she's pretty much accepted him

bet its not always by accident

and i also bet he loves it

do i win my bets

hi again bazzy barns and smurfs and night scatty

weesmurf posted:

big one gets on with him ok too but she fills him full of bulldung like she does with everyone so he's fed up with her now...he encouraged me to give her more chances at the beginning....she's very silly cos he tried to help her alot...but apparently she knows it all 

we all did at that age

barney posted:

weesmurf posted:

big one gets on with him ok too but she fills him full of bulldung like she does with everyone so he's fed up with her now...he encouraged me to give her more chances at the beginning....she's very silly cos he tried to help her alot...but apparently she knows it all 

we all did at that age

Exactly Seriously , my son was a total nightmare ....I'm talking big time .....now it's funny to hear him moaning about his teenagers  

Rosgirl posted:

hi again bazzy barns and smurfs and night scatty

hi again ros, how are you and how are things at work :kiss

don't tell me who left the jungle

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

Rosgirl posted:

hi again bazzy barns and smurfs and night scatty

Hi again Ros Good day ? Blowing a gale out there  

Baz posted:

barney posted:

weesmurf posted:

big one gets on with him ok too but she fills him full of bulldung like she does with everyone so he's fed up with her now...he encouraged me to give her more chances at the beginning....she's very silly cos he tried to help her alot...but apparently she knows it all 

we all did at that age

Exactly Seriously , my son was a total nightmare ....I'm talking big time .....now it's funny to hear him moaning about his teenagers  

and you just sit there saying "karma"

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

Sprout posted:

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

Always welcome Sprout Good day ? 

Sprout posted:

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

'ello sprouty

grab a pew

we are just having a good moan about teenagers

mostly cos we were all so good when we were at that age

baz is making up for it now though

you win all bets barney hands down 

and that's exactly it...i just wanted her to appreciate what she had here in this house

I used to work with someone who had everything done for her too....I often said to her....you're gonna get a rude awakening on day 

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

you all just need to support each other through it smurfy, stay strong lovely

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

Social worker gave me some good advice ....* make sure you survive , cos they will .....and learn to pick your battles ....sometimes you have to just shrug and say whatever  

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

Oh dear Smurf 

Baz posted:

Sprout posted:

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

Always welcome Sprout Good day ? 

The fact that I was stuffed after my dinner , yes    the other bit...Meh! 

weesmurf posted:

you win all bets barney hands down 

and that's exactly it...i just wanted her to appreciate what she had here in this house

is she still in touch with her dad?  could she perhaps stay there for a while?  is grandma still next door?

is that far enough

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

 thought she would love college- shame and aww you can't go on as you are

barney posted:

Baz posted:

barney posted:

weesmurf posted:

big one gets on with him ok too but she fills him full of bulldung like she does with everyone so he's fed up with her now...he encouraged me to give her more chances at the beginning....she's very silly cos he tried to help her alot...but apparently she knows it all 

we all did at that age

Exactly Seriously , my son was a total nightmare ....I'm talking big time .....now it's funny to hear him moaning about his teenagers  

and you just sit there saying "karma"

My words exactly Barney:laugh. same when my daughter was having major problems with my GD ....who has also now come out the other side  

barney posted:

Sprout posted:

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

'ello sprouty

grab a pew

we are just having a good moan about teenagers

mostly cos we were all so good when we were at that age

baz is making up for it now though

*Plonks self*  I'm glad I don't have any teenagers to moan about   

hi ros hi sprout

hi sprooty

Sprout posted:

I used to work with someone who had everything done for her too....I often said to her....you're gonna get a rude awakening on day 

none of us realised how easy it was back before the days of mortgages and other bills, that's for sure

barney posted:

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

you all just need to support each other through it smurfy, stay strong lovely

Ditto 

Baz posted:

weesmurf posted:

i do remember you telling me about your son baz and i know she's not the worst in the world but i just can't deal with her anymore and the effect she's having on us all in this house 

Social worker gave me some good advice ....* make sure you survive , cos they will .....and learn to pick your battles ....sometimes you have to just shrug and say whatever  

think that's true of life bazzy -good advice

barney posted:

Sprout posted:

I used to work with someone who had everything done for her too....I often said to her....you're gonna get a rude awakening on day 

none of us realised how easy it was back before the days of mortgages and other bills, that's for sure

so true

Sprout posted:

barney posted:

Sprout posted:

I'll invade here to save Bazzy fred hopping   saying as Damesy isn't on tonight. Having said that I won't be on long myself

'ello sprouty

grab a pew

we are just having a good moan about teenagers

mostly cos we were all so good when we were at that age

baz is making up for it now though

*Plonks self*  I'm glad I don't have any teenagers to moan about   

me too, or toddlers

I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean 

their dad hasn't bothered with either of them in a long time he's useless anyway can't even look after himself...she's going to go into her granny's until she gets herself somewhere

weesmurf posted:

their dad hasn't bothered with either of them in a long time he's useless anyway can't even look after himself...she's going to go into her granny's until she gets herself somewhere

it is good advice baz but i'm done doing any battles

Sprout posted:

I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean 

Yes , same here 

sick of talking about her too

weesmurf posted:

their dad hasn't bothered with either of them in a long time he's useless anyway can't even look after himself...she's going to go into her granny's until she gets herself somewhere

Hopefully that will calm her down a bit Smurf 

Baz posted:

Sprout posted:

I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean 

Yes , same here 

and here

weesmurf posted:

it is good advice baz but i'm done doing any battles

Even better ....sometimes , believe or not , it's the battles they are after ....act like you don't care and often they just give up  

Sprout posted:

I've got horrendous wind.......outside I mean 

me and smurfy have got it inside and out

What's everyone up to tomorrow ?