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I really can't believe what some of you come out with - honestly, I really can't!  Perhaps the reason why some find him attractive is ................................ wait for it ....................... BECAUSE THEY DO!  Does there really have to be a reason, and is it ONLY your sense of who is attractive that matters?

God help you if any of you were being judged on physical appearance and I for for one, would hope that you're all cat-walk models!

Do you realise how petty, catty and superficially-minded you sound?
I think he's a very good-looking guy.  Now, does that make me blind and stupid - or perhaps someone who is not prepared to diss his looks JUST because I dislike aspects of his character?  I've seen some of your avs and trust me, some of y'all shouldn't be calling-out folk, regarding their looks!

Huddle around your cauldron and discuss ..................
Sarnge
Sarnge

I suppose the point I am trying to make is that beauty is more than skin deep.
So I cannot find JJ good looking because I cannot see past his nasty beady eyes.
I therefore asked how anyone could find him good looking given that he is not a particularly nice person.
I also suppose that as someone who does not like the grubby look, again I was curious.
FM
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suppose the point I am trying to make is that beauty is more than skin deep.


That;s my point too Isadora, I would have to be attracted to someone's personality and JJ's is awful to me. Therefore we see people in a different light, he could be drop dead gorgeous (I don't find him to be) and I still wouldn't fancy him.
Dame_Ann_Average
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e most beautiful person to look at, i.e eyes, skin , hair , figure etc suddenly doesnt look so nice when they have a nasty personality. A severely facially disabled person can have such a beautiful face when they have a beautiful personality. But what do i know...
Exactly.
If someone is ugly inside, eventually they look ugly on the outside...
FM
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I therefore asked how anyone could find him good looking given that he is not a particularly nice person.
But we don't all agree he's not a nice person. I happen to like quite a lot of his personality. I can see he's a right arsey git, but he also makes me laugh, a lot. 

I find him mildly attractive........ and only because I like his personality. If I didn't I would have probably done what I do with all blonde,skinny blokes.....consigned him to the reject bin
Ducky
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I therefore asked how anyone could find him good looking given that he is not a particularly nice person.

But we don't all agree he's not a nice person. I happen to like quite a lot of his personality. I can see he's a right arsey git, but he also makes me laugh, a lot.  I find him mildly attractive........ and only because I like his personality. If I didn't I would have probably done what I do with all blonde,skinny blokes.....consigned him to the reject bin
ah you see - point proved! You like his personality and therefore you do find him attractive.
I suppose it is all personal choice in the end.
FM
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Never heard the expression beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Just because you find him attractive, doesn't mean WE have to.
But, conversely, just because others don't find him attractive it doesn't mean that I have to agree.

And the whole premise of this thread doesn't make sense to me. There are men who I find good-looking who others think are ugly, and if they can't see why I'm attracted then they're not going to see it however I try to explain. Attraction is not based on logic.
PeterCat

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